Dear Younger Me: Post-College Reflections
If I could go back four years and talk to pre-college Sophie, here are twenty-two things I would say to her:
Say “get to” instead of “have to.”
College is a balance of striving for excellence while giving yourself grace and patience along the way.
Achievements might make you happy, but only God defines your worth.
Cultivate a healthy sleep schedule.
The world needs who you were created to be.
Do something small to get out of your comfort zone every day, even if it’s just saying “hi” to someone you don’t know.
You’ll have a better day when you get up early and spend time in the Word and in prayer.
Not everyone is going to like you, and that’s okay.
Money can be replaced, but time cannot.
Remember that mastery is a process, and practice makes progress.
Learn to recognize failure as an opportunity to grow.
Assignments and grades are important, but health is more important.
Remember the Sabbath, to keep it holy.
Spend time around people who spend time with God.
It’s okay to have a stress cry when you feel overwhelmed.
If you think something nice about someone, also say it to them.
You will never regret being kind.
It’s better to be a little bit late than to have an accident.
Don’t drive tired.
Prioritize prayer.
Make a point to remember people’s names.
Keep a journal, even if you only write a few sentences a day.
Lastly, I’d like to leave you with two verses:
“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” Matthew 6:33
“My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.” James 1:2-3
